The Social Clarity Guide
A practical workbook for autistic adults
By Pamalee Larr, EdS, LMHC, BCBA
Social situations can be difficult to interpret when expectations and unwritten rules are unclear. The Social Clarity Guide offers a practical, neurodiversity-affirming approach to understanding social situations and participating in groups.
Explore social reasoning, communication in context, group dynamics, sensory needs, personal values and boundaries. The focus is on clarity, dignity and autonomy as you consider responses that fit your needs and the setting.
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Fact–Guess–Interpretation
Try these prompts with a recent confusing interaction. Write your answers in your own notes, starting with what you can verify before considering possible interpretations.
- What happened that I can verify?
- What meaning did my mind give it?
- What else could be true?
- What information is missing?
- What would I need to know before deciding?
- What response protects my values and safety?
This reflection tool is one example of the worksheets in The Social Clarity Guide. The goal is to make a situation clearer and support a response that fits your needs and values.
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